......气质...?

昨天回去中华交东西，

结果遇到秀卿，

她一见到我就说，

“巧儿，你变了耶!都快认不出了。”

“哪里变了啊？样子吗？”

“不，气质变了。”

我当场吓了一跳，气质怎么变呢？



她说，我以前的气质不一样

以前有种执着，自信的感觉

现在呢，看起来，

好像缺乏自信，又变温柔了

她还说，这种改变有好有坏啦

只是要我注意的是，

恋爱中的女人，

很容易变得温柔，

再加上依赖男朋友，

这样就很失败啦

以前是个很独立自主的女强人

就要平衡，不能变成小女人

对内可柔，对外可刚

所谓内，就是男朋友

所谓外，就是工作事业



我听了很赞同

但是，我想了想，

对男朋友也不能完全千依百顺啊

有些时候，我还是得坚持我的立场

只要不要坚持到吵架就好了^^

因为很多事情的观点都不同

出发点也不同

所以对每件事情的看法也未必一样

这不是男女朋友之间没有默契

而是各自都很有原则

都有各自的立场

这样不错嘛

只要之间互相忍让

就可以和平相处了啊^^

谢谢你噢，秀卿!^^

Working Holiday e-Visa

Starting from 1st of April, I have been worrying about the WORKING HOLIDAY E-VISA...
Why is it so slow to complete the visa...Until now!!!15th of April!!!I oso haven get my visa!!!
Is there any problems with the NZ embassy?
Or their effiiciency suddenly drop to the level like Malaysia's...

I really don't want to talk bad things of any country actually...
But it really make me in a bad bad bad mood to wait n wait n wait......!
Without any news......!
We(me,lilian,min,chen) had been calling, checking emails, sending emails on our own...
But still the visa havent come to us......

Besides have to be patient for waiting the news from the embassy...
I oso have to be patient to answer all those questions from ppl who prihatin to me...
"When is your flight?"
"Are you going to study?Den how many years will you be there?"
"Why are you still here?"
"Aren't you should be there now?"
????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????!
Arrg....!All this questions are annouying me...!
I know they cared about me...
But what can I do...
I myself oso dun hav the answer...
I oso dunno why i am still here...
I am so afraid that i cant go there in the end...
If this is the end, it is so embarrassing...!
It is not only the problems of the face...
It is oso the problem of wasting time...
If this is the end, those adults will probably blame me for wasting my time...

Oh God, I hope that this is not the end...
I am so looking forward to the new life in New Zealand...
New life, new home, new family and new environment......
I have been dreaming or imagining of the new life there for many times....
So, please dun let this be the end......

Finally...START...

dun be surprised...this finally doesn't mean de end of my blog...juz happy coz in the end i got my blog started...u won't know how difficult for me to start my blog...first, is de problem of gmail account...i forgot my account and password...hehee...it's common for me...coz too many things hav to keep in mind maa...>.<

this blog started after my secondary school, after my first job(as a temporarily teacher in KHEOW BIN, my primary skul^^), after 2 weeks hanging around...haha...for the last year in CHONG HWA, there was really alots of sweet n crazy memories tat i cant forget...but i cant write here of course, too long, i sure u will fall asleep...

After graduated, i started my first job as a teacher...waa...that's really a unforgotten memory lar...those kids ar...especially those monitors...always wanna help in everything...is this called responsible?hahaa...who knows??They juz like to stick with teachers...but not every teacher wor...juz those friendly n not fierce teachers lo...like me...haha...but if they din hand in homework 4 many times, i oso will canned them de...juz those pupils who are totally lazy la...

but some pupils oso very cute la...they keep on asking 4 my phone number..of course i din gif them la..or not i wont be free to write my blog now..>.<

the relationships between me and my colleagues oso not bad lo...we even went out of skul during skul time to take breakfast lo...haha...de "LO BAN MEE" really delicious lo...haha...i wont forget all those memories de...

de most fren teachers when i was working there...they helped me a lot...^^i miss them...